2020
Despite our computer problems and considering the day-job business turned its toes up for a couple of weeks, I nevertheless feel that the Christmas hols went pretty well. Rich and I refused point blank to put Christmas on credit, so like most folks this year we were on a very tight budget. The kids were surprisingly happy with less – in fact they pitched in with cooking and other preparations and made it probably our best Christmas Day ever. My younger son (budding chef) spent literally days preparing exotic culinary gifts and my older son (Hogwarts artist) worked v. hard to give his mother what she desires more than anything else – his art.
Rich and I were teenagers in the 80’s, the era of materialism. Happiness was measured by success, power and money. In our early twenties, we worked hard and played hard – and yet what did we end up with at the end of the day? Not much apart from debt and exhaustion to be honest (although I fondly recall some rather splendid gold-plated bath taps in our first apartment some twenty years ago – yes, in retrospect I was clearly insane, but image was all in those days.)
Thankfully the current generation of teenagers are learning very different lessons. Not only do they know that debt is bad, but more importantly they are learning a completely different concept of wealth. Due to the combination of global recession and the new digital age, today’s youth will have completely different priorities in life when they reach adulthood in a few years time. A lot of this has to do with being happy with less of course (family incomes are not what they once were) but also our teenagers have completely different priorities now than we did twenty-five years ago.
Because our kids are growing up in the modern internet age, they are used to having all the information of the world at their fingertips – for free. To the modern teenager, money is no longer the currency of happiness. The pursuit of knowledge is far more important. Rather than showing off their latest designer trainers, they are more interested at the latest free games they can get on Facebook or the latest free apps they can get on Garry’s Mod. Obvious displays of wealth are thought vulgar (nowadays middle-class kids look down on designer labels – kids who show off are derided as “chavs” – the ultimate put-down!) Instead of displays of status, intelligence is seen as the ultimate aspiration. The age of the Computer Geek is here! Instead of the acquisition of goods, kids seek the acquisition of culture and knowledge. They are adept traders in the Digital Economy, which is not based on money but instead on exchange of knowledge, freely shared amongst close-knit communities online.
Indeed it is the exponential growth in online communities which has produced the biggest change in our children over the last five years or so. Our teenagers have become phenomenal global communicators. They talk, build relationships, create, play, share free videos and photos online, they trade information and experiences, and although practically no money changes hands (most online games, widgets and so forth are either free or incredibly cheap) I would argue that teenagers of today are learning how to be happy from sources other than the ones measured by the $ Dollar sign.
What happens when those same teenagers grow into adults and they are the ones who run our countries? How will they shape our laws, our communities, our civilization? When intelligence, technology, community and culture are the new currencies and people are measured not by what possessions they have or by how much they earn, but instead by what knowledge they can give to each other, what will the world be like then, circa 2020?
I, for one, am greatly looking forward to their brave new world. Chances are that the world will be a better place in ten years time. A world based on truth, openness and sharing with new friends, rather than merely taking for oneself.
A very belated Happy New Year to you all!

















